Why do my friends think im a raciset?

my friends think im raciest cause I have a HUGE problem when black guys date white girls I mean I seriously hate it but I dont have problem with a white guy dating a black women cause I mean really a black woman now a days will not be gettin a black guy. but it really bugs me that they of me like that. so I dont what to do and do you think im a raciset?

Answer #1

The thing that your doing is generalizing black people. Not all black people all are as bad as you see them. It sounds racist because you find it ‘’wrong’’ to find a white woman with a black man. You see that, that alone sounds racist. Why is it that you find it wrong? Is it because of their skin tone? That’s racist. You think the advice that people are giving you isn’t helpful because it doesn’t agree with what your saying. Being racist doesn’t only mean that you think your race is superior to all other races, it also means have a negative view towards other races. Your implying that by saying that you find it wrong for a black guy to date a white women. Also, no one else here has shown any racial slurs and/or comments. If they did they would’ve been deleted. I think you should research about it more before claiming your not a racist. Also, your setting standards for what people should date. According to you its okay for a white man to date a black women but its not okay for a white girl to date a black guy. Why do you think thats okay? How is one thing acceptable and the other one not? Like ty said, if you think people are not allowed to do things because of their skin tone that makes you a racist. How obvious does it have to be for you to realize it?

I WAS A RACISET I WOULD PROBALY WANT TO KILL THEM OR DO SOMETHING REALLY BAD TO THEM

Wrong, having negative views toward black people dating white girls. The simple thought of that is enough to tell you that it is in fact racist. To be honest your already doing harm to them by saying that according to you this isn’t acceptable. People have a given reason to be calling you a racist and you like a typical racist doesn’t want to accept their views. Things pile up on here you know, its very easy to tell that your a racist. Why not instead of having a negative view towards the whole ‘’white girls can’t date black guys’’ you look up on it and see if it really is as bad as you make it out to be. Lets just say, for pure coincidence what would happen if your daughter was white and she liked a black man? What would you do. Most likely you would end the relationship, why? Because you won’t approve of her going out with a black man. Do you know that that black guy probably has feelings for your daughter that are genuine. Do you take into consideration how much pain that might cause your daughter? These are things to look at when you say that interracial dating is wrong. You should seriously consider changing your point of view. Its not healthy to the slightest bit.

Answer #2

I mean really a black woman now a days will not be gettin a black guy

That is a huge GENERALIZATION, oh and you do sound racist.

And a tip: If you don’t like something that others are doing and it isn’t hurting anyone. KEEP your MOUTH shut.

Answer #3

If you think that people should or should not be doing things because of their race, you’re racist. It doesnt get any more complicated than that…

Answer #4

I AGREE WIT EVERYONE ELSE YOUR FRIENDS ARE CALLING YOUR RACIST because YOU ARE OH AND FOR YOU COMMENT ABOUT BLACK GIRLS…WE KIND STAY ON BLACK DUDES SO WE DONT HAVE TO DEAL EITH PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHITE GIRLS LOVE BLACKS GUYS what CAN I SAY MOST RACES MESS WIT BLACK PEOPLE ANYWAY =) CAN WE ALL just A GET ALONG RACIST

Answer #5

It sounds racist, but the sure way to tell is to examine your thoughts on this. Why does it bother you? If you can come up with a legitiment and honest answer, then that may really help.

Answer #6

a black woman now a days will not be gettin a black guy

Where do you get that idea from?

…and yeah, you do sound a little racist, to be honest.

Answer #7

Then I think that you should be careful of the questions that you ask, you just might get the answers! I could tell you were one of those black girls jealous because you cant get a man, so you take it out on white women who can. You sound like a child, and you have a lot to learn about racism. If you had a predjudice you would not be okay with either of the two mixing. And it is so cliche’ to say “ I have white friends” who cares. You asked a question, am I racist, if you already knew you werent WHY DID YOU HAVE TO ASK?

Answer #8

I thought this website was to give people advice this is not advice this is just accussing me of something that im not and btw I have a lot of white friends if I was rraciset then I would be able to stand white people this if just one big problem I have so as I said you sould check yourself before you call someone a raciset cause when you say that if hurts it hurts a lot and it pisses you off

Answer #9

ARE YOU GUYS SERIOUS you DONT EVEN KNOW THE MEANING A A RACISET IF I WAS A RACISET I WOULD PROBALY WANT TO KILL THEM OR DO SOMETHING REALLY BAD TO THEM I AM NOT AN EFFIN RACISET I AM NOT THE ONLY WHO THINKS THIS A LOT A BLACK WOMAN THINK THIS AND I AM NOT JELOUS. ALL OF YOU ADVICE WAS NOT HELPFUL WITH MY PROBLEM THIS IS RIDICULOUS. AND JUST REALLY I CANT BELIEVE THIS I AM NOT A EFFIN RACISET. THERE IS A DIFFERENCES BETWEEN PREDIDUCE AND RACISET SO MMAYBE YOU SHOULD RESEARCH THIS AND CHECK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU CALL SOMEONE A RACISET. I MEAN REALLY

Answer #10

for everyones info I’ve had black and asian girlfriends and as I’ve said before id much rarther have a relationship with a black or asian girl than a white bird but that doesnt make me racist towards whites..

I dont surpose youve had a bad experiance with a black bloke in a relationship?

Answer #11

It is racist and pretty immature. Why is it ok for a white guy to date a black woman, but not a white woman to date a black man? You not only sound racist, but jealous. You are entitled to your belife systems, but don’t expect people to back you up when you have a double standard approach to begin with. Who cares who is with who? I would rather see a interacial couple that is truley in love than a single race couple who hate each other!

Answer #12

Yes it is racist but it’s okay. I accept you for what you believe. Just don’t bring that belief up around interracial couples or black people… or at all I suppose. I mean you can help to change that point of view if you want to. Maybe if you start by looking at a picture of a black woman dating a white man and said to yourself ‘’this is okay. this is love’’ and notice all the positive things about the relationship. I.e. they look happy :) And then you can ‘’graduate’’ to a black man dating a white woman, which you like even less. Good luck!

Answer #13

you saying, “friends think im raciest cause I have a HUGE problem when black guys date white girls I mean I seriously hate it” - is a raciset remark right there!! it seems to me that you’re going along with the gender/race steriotype of black males. perhaps that may be something you need to learn to overlook!! - you’re judging people by their skin color, when really, if you think about it - if we were all to peel of our skins, we’re the same underneath! -

Answer #14

There isn’t anything wrong with two unlike races going out with each other.On second thought that is racist, there isn’t anything to have against a black guy or a black girl. You seem to be feeding off the negative comments what people say about black people. You can’t generalize people based on skin tone. Adding to this, if a white girl decides to date a black guy its her choice. You shouldn’t be ridiculing her, its her choice not yours.

Answer #15

im white and dating a african american and that seems racist

Answer #16

racist

Answer #17

Yea that sounds racist very racist

Answer #18

That is racist. There is absolutely nothing wrong with interracial dating. This isn’t the 1700’s

Answer #19

^^ agreed

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