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Why do I not cum?

I do sexual things with my boyfriend for example sex, licked out, head, finger, tosse but I never cum and I want to cum because I have heard it feels good.

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Your not getting aroused enough, and hes not hitting your spot, every girl has this spot that when stimulated enough will make you cum, it also depends on your methods and what you do and dont like, you need to see what you like first. Before you actually have full blown sex a good thing to try if you dont do this already is have him finger you and eat you out, try the 69 position it stimulates both partners. Or if it turns you on to give him a blow job do so, before you have sex. Yet sometimes girls have a hard time even getting aroused so K-Y makes this arousel gel you can try when he fingers you or when you have sex, but its best to be aroused when you have sex. I know you get wet when you have sex, but if your not horny then it is not arousel wetness, it is your body trying to lubicrate your vagina so there isn’t friction. If you have friction it can instill a bad memory in your body and make it even harder to get aroused because it remembers the feeling. Hope this helped.

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