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Why do I mainly attract nerds?

Okay well its really weird because I am a hot 13 year old girl who looks like I could be a 15 year old model and I am the most outgoing person you will run into. I am funny and I know how to flirt when I want to but heres the problem- I only get the guys who are out of my league. I mean ya I’ve gotten a couple guys who are cute but no one who is a match for me. There are a couple guys in my school who are rreeaallyy hot but they wouldnt even think about going out with me. And I dont mean to sound conceded but I’ve been told this a million times about how I look and you can easily see it in my pictures. But anywho I just dont see why I cant get a hotty. I mean I have at least 6 guys wrapped around my fingure right now but only one of them I would wanna have a relationship with and he wont even ask me out. I really like him and he likes me but he just doesnt want a relationship and hes sorta (not tottally) the guy im looking for. I just dont get it. I dont know if they are just attracted to me because Im nice to them or if they get the wrong vibe or something. I just want a hotty wit a six pack and I don’t know why I cant find one that will like me back?! please help.

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Answer #1

Aybe you just look really open and approachable! I am the same way, but the guys like me because I actuaaly talk to them and laught at their jokes. They are actually pretty nice if you get to know them… Well.. Not everyone, but some are good!

Answer #2

Jazlovestoskate said it, girly. You shouldn’t base relationships off of “hottness”. That has nothing to do with it, and even though it’s nice having that “hotty with a six pack” it’s not all there is that goes into a relationship. Personality plays a big part in it.

Maybe the guy doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you because you flirt with everyone? Having five guys “wrapped around your finger”, IMO, is not something to be proud of. Sit back, relax. You’re 13 - grow up a little and then worry about relationships.

Answer #3

maybe its because your aproaching the situation wrong your basically saying your vain and only want a hot boyfreind all the realy hot guys are out of your leauge and the nice guys who look normal must be nerds because there not hot enough for you not to mention your only a 13 year old kid you need to think about personality a relationship isnt based on looks, its based a lot on personality unless both people are so vain and dumb they dont care and just want to look hot all the time just because soemone is hot does NOT mean they are a match for you there are heaps of guys who share common instrests with you but if you dont stop being vain, you will put yourself in a little box and only let other ‘’hot”” vain guys into it

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