Why do I let him treat me this way?

Me and my boyfriend have our ups and downs,but his the one that always has to decide what happens in the relationship.we live together and yesterday he asked me why I still have my ex-boyfriends number on my cell,so while I was explaining he said I must just stop cause im pathetic so I kept quiet and then as we were about to sleep he says that I should go home tomorrow and that when he gets home he wants me out because he does not trust me anymore.what should I do cause I love him and I dont know how to handle this situation

Answer #1

I agree with xxstephyooxx because he seems like a douche. Remeber this always: If a guy wants to be with you offically boyfriend and girlfriend he will, if a guy wants to see you regardless of the circumstances he will find a way! So if you are hooking up with a guy all summer and he all of a sudden gets a new girlfriend, then you should know that it was a summer fling at the least you know. I wouldn’t waste my time, and it is a possibility if you back off and pretend like you don’t care and date around a little maybe he will realize he really does like you, but don’t sit around and hope for that. You are better than him I am sure!

Answer #2

same thing happened to me. I told mine it was because we are still friends and I still talk to him but not in that way. of course after that he broke my phone but dont leave, when he gets back talk to him about it even though you may not want to delete his number do it anyways and remember by heart write in a secret place or even save it under a different name. talk to you boyfriend about it though and ask what you can do to let him trust you, becuase you felt as though you did nothing wrong.

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