Why do I feel this

Today I got dumped it was for the best obviously we werent meant to be buti love him and I I dont know for some reason I feel like its all mi fault like I wasnt good enough for him but I don’t know I cant stand it being left wit these memories I dont think im to blame for this ending I think we both are but him more because he never cared like I put in alll the effort and he did nothing and yet I feel like its all mi fault why?

Answer #1

The only thing you were at fault for was taking him back again…when things dont work out the first time with someone (especially as a young teen), its best to move on, and learn from that relationship. You ignored all the warning signs with this guy, and you ignored all your friends who knew what they were talking about. Next time, maybe you should listen to your friends…or you’ll end up not having any!

Answer #2

hey hun its not your fault. he was a jerk. he didnt even do sh*t when you gave him another chance!!! and he doesnt deserve such a pretty, beautiful, awesome, nice smart girl. ok? he is the jerk. I would say much worse things but I dont want to get in trouble lol. but its not your fault. my motto is “if a boy dumps u, hes turned gay” lol. so try to feel better hun!!! love ya!!! -liz

Answer #3

It’s a natural reaction to feel like it’s your fault when a relationship doesn’t work out. In failed relationships you always question why didn’t it work out? What didn’t I do? Could I have made things better? That is how people learn and grow. Eventually you will find someone who doesn’t make you ask those questions to yourself.

Answer #4

You got attactched and when the heart thinks it has found some place to “plant roots” it grows there and gets to liking it.

               Yes I know it hurts, and I felt the same way after me and my ex ended but I promise you, you will find someone better, and someone who appreciates all the love and effort that you put into yals relationship, I know I found that person, and im sure you will too. You seem like you really put your all into it, and I hope that you stop feeling like that, it may hurt, the memories will always be there, and wont ever go away, its something you have to live with. Its not your fault though, if he didnt care how much you were trying, how could it be your fault. 

                For a relatio ship to work you have to giveyour all from both people, it cant just be one, maybe it was also more of infatuation, than love, but best of luck and if you need anything, anymore help, im here, ill add you as a friend, and you can fun mail me or comment me any time you need me, ill be here,pinky swear <3 xoxo
Answer #5

uh ill make it short: hunny its not your flute, its his. boys are stupid!!!

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