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Why do I cheat?

I am not sure what to do, my boyfriend and I have gone out for 2 years now, but for the past year and a half I have cheated on him and the thing is he knows and lets me get away with it, I have felt guilty the past few times after the fact because I dont know why I keep doing this to him. I care about him, and sometimes I feel upset or that hes missing something. I know that every person is not perfect and hes the longest relationship I have ever had so I am not sure if my standards are too high and im never going to be happy or I should just give up now and settle?

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Answer #1

I have told him, and he does not want it? so yea Im a bit confused I also rely on him for everything, money a car, rent…

Answer #2

You obviously don’t like him as much as he likes you. Especially if he’s willing to let you go on cheating just so he can keep you. Don’t settle. B/c then You will never be happy. he might be the longest relationship, but he might not be you’re last either. So just end. Say you need space. And see what happens.

Answer #3

My Ex said it perfectly.. “I will never cheat on you.. if I dont want you I wont mess you arround, I wil just end it and move on” So you mess your man arround.. wrong wrong wrong.. he deserves better than that.. Be honest with him.. break it off.. my x did that.. I let he go.. no she wants me back.. I told her. sorry .. not good enough then.. not good enough now..

Answer #4

well then it kinda sounds like your using him. You’re going to need to learn to stand on your own two feet.

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