Why do guys watch porn even if they have a girl friend to have sex

Many guys watch porn as well as masturbate even when they are married or in a long term relationship.

This can, but usually does not imply that they are unhappy with the relationship or that they are short of sex.

Some men may want sex more often than the female so as a result they masturbate when she isn’t willing/able.

I just found the following two paragraphs on the internet:

Here’s an example - when a guy gets up in the morning, he might be in the bathroom shaving, and suddenly he says to himself, “hey, let me rub one out real quick…” and he’ll just go ahead and take care of business. Most guys can get through it in a few minutes and their done. It’s not a long process, as it often is for women.

With sex, there are two people involved and it is often not appreciated, for obvious reasons, if the guy just hops on and gets off in a few minutes. There is usually some desired foreplay, lead up, and the woman desires to reach climax as well. So, he has obligations during sex that aren’t there during solo activities. That’s one reason - if all you want to do is get something done so you can go to sleep… sex can sometimes be too much time and effort.

Please dont put yourself down or think you have to live up to the porn images, this is not the bsckground behind this behaviour and womens understanding of sex/motives are very different from how a guy thinks about the same thing.

Wives and partners would be shocked if they realised just how many men in happy relationships with a regular sex life still watch porn and masturbate. Most men would lie about this if asked.

Masturbation is not necessarily better than sex for a guy, its just DIFFERENT.

I once saw a quote that said, ‘Married or not, a man who doesn’t masterbate is a man with no arms.’

Another well known quote is: “99% of married men masturbate. The other 1% are liars”

Ask your partner and see what he says. Watch his body language when he replies.

smile

Kiasu