Why do girls want to waste their virginity and not save it?

breakingfan2006 - your opinion is wrong. You wont marry the person unless you’re in love. If you marry them and youre not sure…well thats just stupid.

ok think of this, because your sex life is important in a relationship, especially when your married. then think of this, when you have sex for the 1st time and your married, what if you really like it, but your husband or wife sucks. what do you think is guna happen? some one will cheat and the break up is guna happen. saving yourself for married is sweet, but stupid in my opinion.

ok I understand what your saying, I really do..

but if a girl told me no sex till were married id break it off there and then..

because if im not getting any at home ill play away and I wouldnt want to cheat becuase its not nice and disrespectful..

I lost my virginity in school at break time in a muddy forest and ill never forget it as it was like being in heaven for all the 2 and a half minutes it lasted..

I think the reason so many girls are losing it soo early in life is because they dont understand it.. what I mean is that sex education at todays standards is nothing to what it was when I was at school..

and because all their mates are doing, well, prob just saying they have to look hard or summet they feel they have to do it to..

if your mate jumped off a building would you have to do it too?

but yeah… I compleatly understand and agree with you its just I couldnt do it or wouldnt have done it myself… sex is what keeps me sane haha

have I just contradicted myself lol

im with you ashleigh im trying to save myself for my husband, that way he know me in a way that no other guy ever will… I like that. something that you throw around on a daily bases is not special at all, today sex is more of a past time instead of a proclamation and proof of two peoples love for each other.

Im with you Im completly trying to save it it would be romantic and stuff because its the guy you absolutly love .=]