why do girls forgive a cheater?

I have had a girl in the past that I cheated on and she knew I did, it was so obvious that I was also talking to multiple girls at the time too, BUT she stayed with me. What would make a girl do that??? I ended falling in love with her but it always surprised me that she stayed with me through all that bs.

Answer #1

I hope you can see how bad it hurts now. girls want to be loved. they fall easy. that’s why they have no self respect and are easy to get ..(SEX)… Guys are just horny and don’t have self respect either. but if you’re not able to love her and put her first and make sure she’s the only one you’d do anything for, you’re not a worthy boyfriend. and if you’ve never heard any of this before, I think you should get some relationship advice from GOOD people. if you don’t want to hurt her anymore, this is some really good advice to take. And don’t even mention sex, you or her, cause that shows how little respect you have for each other. it’s a precious thing, save the right time for the right person.

Answer #2

ask this one guestion to yourself, do you respect her more or less for forgiving you. think about it. do you ever think hey I did once I can do it again with her an d get away with it?

Answer #3

it’s all good to say how in love or whatever, but once a cheater always a cheater…come on

Answer #4

I was cheating on her because at the time it didnt seem logical that we would be able to be in a relationship anyway so I just didnt take ours seriously but she ended up falling for me hard I guess, and when I saw that she really liked me I fell for her but I just never understood how she put up with all the cheating I did. It had to be embarassing for her because everybody knows I did. I feel so bad about what I put her through now. It hurts sometimes when I think about what I put her through.

Answer #5

she probably loves you too mucxh to let you go when someone really loves someone, or is too blindly in love you to notice anyone else theyll want to be with that person for as long as they can and will forgive horrible and stupid things, like cheating even though what you did killed her trust towards you shes loves you she also might be scared of being alone thinks she wont be able to find anyone else so stayed with you ect, theres lots of reasons but if you want HERS then youll need to ask HER about it

Answer #6

I don’t. I don’t want to be hurt at all!! which probably won’t happen, but I have trust issues, so if I found out he cheats, I will never trust him again, and I’ll get over it one day. he may not, but that’s his loss. I want to live happy :) even if I really love him, I can’t take the heart break, and it’ll hurt much worse if I catch him a second time.

Answer #7

she has faith on U

Answer #8

because she must really love you! my boyfriend was doing the same thing but I couldnt let him go because I loved him too much and now we have been going out for like 5 months:)

Answer #9

if she really luvs you and she realizes that you luv her then she will believe u

Answer #10

First of all, cheating is BAD!!!… I hate when guys cheat.. and id prob never forgive someone for cheating on me.. She must have really really loved you, and wanted to believe that you would stop cheating, and stay with her, and only her…

Answer #11

That once a cheater always a cheater is bs. Once I actually committed to her I didnt cheat. At first we just didnt have a mutual understanding.

Answer #12

its probably cause she thought that if you two were meant for each other it would work out the right way or she loved you and didnt want to say anything because she was scared to lose u

Answer #13

I have been cheated on before && its not cool at all its HURTFUL && BAD + MEAN! I dont think I eva 4gave him 4 it. but if that girl stayed wit you she must care A LOT about you. & if you were in love wit her then why did you cheat??? lol. not trying to be mean just trying to get things where not so many peps get their feelings hurt like dis.

Answer #14

I don’t; speak for yourself.

Answer #15

I have never met a guy in my life who has never cheated on me. I have always been loyal. I forgive easily, but the seed of un-trust finally ends the relationship after sometime. I love my fiancee, we are engaged, and still he cheats on me.. all the time. I keep on forgiving him, I don’t know why. Once my brother sed “ All men are dogs” and I guess It’s true. All men are.

Answer #16

I’m in that same situation right now… I really don’t know why I keep forgivin him…I love him so much and don’t want to loose him but I now face trust issues with him…I have forgiven him but its hard to forget…we forgive because we’re only human…

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