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Why did the guy say this mean thing to me?

My boyfrriend is being really mean to me saying harsh things making me feel like the victum when I know im not.. He said it was out of anger but the truth is I dont no if it really was it left me in tears..

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Answer #1

Im sorry to say this but if he gets harsh you should realy consider leaving him. even though he might not seem like it he could be the type to get violent. dont ever let him walk on you. if you dont want to leave him the least you could do for yourself is to reaserch early signs of relationship abuse. I have had this problem before and one of the biggest causes is if you let him call you names. love is supposed to be happy so why deal with him making you cry. the only reason my guy stopped is because I left him the first time he hit me.

Answer #2

Sounds pretty bad. Have you had a fight like this before? Is this a pattern with him? Tempers can be awful things and can hurt just as much as physical violence, be careful that this is truly a one time event and not a sign of emotional abuse, people should always argue or debate the issues, belittling or saying harsh things is not debating it is controlling and bullying, if he does not understand that I suggest you find a boyfriend who does.

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