Why did he stop texting me?

Ok so I started talking to this one guy, I’ve known him for a long time and I gave him my number and we started texting each other. He was hinting to me that he liked me and he would compliment me and stuff like that and I was really excited cause I thought it would turn into something new, but seriosuly two days after we started talking he wouldnt text me back. I texted him the next day and he didnt reply. So I havent talked to him since (this happened like a month ago) because I thought maybe I needed to give him space or something? I dont know, I need opnions cause I am very confused. Please and thank you :]

Answer #1

its not you! your beautiful inside and out so never forget that. just put yourself in his shoes… re-read the texts,, and they probably sounded okay to you but to him hes like “wowa”…I aksed this guy I like to hang out and asked him for more of his time.. hes said that “wasn’t into that text conversation and said I made him feel bad that he doesn’t have time to see” !!??? wtf I just wanna hang out with him and show him off and no pressure. ugh its frustrating but I manned up and told myself ITSS NOT ME its him. whatever his problem is with me is him and im moving on today. im not waiting around for him to call me. I want him to chase me and if he doesn’t then ( I just did the jizz on your face hand motion), and by the way he called me all the time and texted me all the time and now hes backing off? GUY are idiots and selfish. our bad if we want a little attention. right???!

Answer #2

CALL him and ask whats up lmao

Answer #3

this happened to me likd 5 times my freshman year. its actually happening right now. theres this guy I go to school with so I added him on a social site and started talking to him. he told me he wanted to get to know me and invited me to a movie. we did those “late night texting sprees” till midnight everynight for about 3 days. then the next day I was in barns and noble and I texted him and he kept giving me one word answers. and he didnt answer my text that night. I decided to give him some space and its been two days since I’ve texted him. since im in the same situation as you I would text him tonight and say “hey do you still wanna hang?” or something. maybe you should say heyyy I havent talked to you in forever whats up?. something flirty like that. you dont want to seem obsessive or pushy. I’ve he doesnt answer try one more time. otherwise leave it alone. he probably lost interest or is involved with another girl. :) hope that helped

Answer #4

Nope I wouldn’t text him. If he wants you ull hear from him. Men like the chase. Save your self respect and back off a little. Btw I’m going thru the same thing now. I’m backing off a bit. Appearing glued to the phone and needy isn’t attractive. I’m just speaking the truth. Being nicety nice can only get you so far.

Answer #5

Hey, I’m going through he same thing now. and I totally know how it feels. it’s this guy I only see a couple of times a week, but I thought for sure we had this connection then…nothing. I texted him 3 times and I’ve still got nothing. Now it feels really awkward, like I don’t know if I should even talk to him if I see him or whatever. But you know, just hang out with your girlfriends, and FORGET the guy. or try to anyway. or wait for him to text you, but dont literally WAIT. move on! :) you can do it, girly!

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