Why change?:( dont know what to do!!??

Hey everybody.. Okay me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 years. Btw we are not teens , ill be 21 and she’ll be 19 this yr. Everything was fine up untill a couple weeks ago. Her friend is always trying to come over which is fine but then my girlfriend wants her friend whom is a guy to sleep over aswell. I dont feel comfortable with this. I tried explaining it to her but she just gets mad and says that im saying that she cant have friends. Not to mention she doesnt cook no more, or annything im working , cooking , doing all the household stuff , and when I want to do something romantic she doesnt have the enthusiasum to do it. But when her friends want to do something she’ll just get up and get ready. And everyday she mentions something about her guy friend. And is always mad at me.. I love her so much but I find it impossible to get anny point across…

I just feel like giving up..

Answer #1

I may only be 16, and not know anything about ‘mature” relationships … but, I am a girl and I know what goes through their minds. Honestly, it seems to me that she’s lost interest and she’s taking advantage of you. Of course you’re going to get mad and feel uncomfortable about her hanging around with a guy. She’s always mad at you..that’s a sign that she’s either trying to push you away or make you work harder. Talk to her about it, tell her what’s going through your head. If she shows lack of concern or tells you you’re being ridiculous… dump her. Doesn’t matter how much you love the girl, don’t go around getting basically beaten up…it takes two to tango, and it seems to me that she’s not showing any effort and or concern. I hope I kind of helped, again… I’m just a youngin, I don’t know much.

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