Why cant I talk to my mum about sex and stuff like that!?

Well I can talk to my mum about so many thing but I just find it so emmbarising to talk to my mum about sex or stuff like that,like I wan to know how she lost her viginity and what age. Help!!!

Answer #1

I know it’s really difficult because it’s embarrasing and all that but just be totally straight with her and remember that your mum was once your age and too be honest I appreciated being asked because now I know that if my kids have a problem they will come to me,my 12 yr old daughter and 11 step daughter can approach me about everything re growing up and it’s good for me to know that so maybe your mum will feel exactly the same, hope this helps a little

Answer #2

It is always hard.

You wonder

What will she think Will I sound wrong How do I start it

But really all teens have this problem the best thing to do is just you know sit her down and have a kid and mom tak and express yourself.

Answer #3

When I talk to my mom for the first time about sex and things like that,it was so hard. But after a few mins we really opened up about how we feel about sex. You may not think your mom or even dad will get you but they will try as hard as they can for you. They will always be there for you and the best way to know that they are willing to help you with it,is to talk it out slowly with no yellin and judging.

   Hope I helped.
Answer #4

jux feel free and do it your mum is not going to shout at you for asking such a question. don’t be too aggressive when asking her.

Answer #5

If you are uncomfrotable/embarassed to talk about sex it means you are still too immature to handle the consequences of sex.

Answer #6

some things are are personal baby…, thats why nature makes you feel embarressed to ask …your mum lost her virginity when she felt like doing it… age doesnt come in to it…once their tongue starts pushing its way round the mouth, and teeth knock against teeth…who cares how old you are…nature has no birthdays. .. so wether your mum was 14 or 40, it doesnt really concern you… just as when it happens [or happend ]to you,, makes no difference to your mum either.. leave your mum out of it. thats what friends are for…good luck be careful

Answer #7

if you are really close to one of your friends moms I would talk to her first .. then it will help you become more comfortable with yourself and the topic its self .. take a few days to get your thoughts together and ask your mom if you can have a girl talk and just ask .. also my mom and I never use to be very close so we would write notes back and forth..

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