Why cant I stop thinking about my cat that died 2 days ago?

lossing a pet is very hard, trust me in my line of work im seeing people go through what you do all the time. And it never gets an easyier to deal with. The truth is the fact your still griving in a good thing it means your cat was well loved and will never be forgot. It not your fault the kittens died the sad fact is that this sort of things can happen. If you want to honur you cat then why not adopt an animal from a shelta it not like you would be replacing you cat or the kittens but think of it more as honuring their memory.

When my dog was put to sleep my granny read me a peom that helped me to get over the pain.

“ A Pet’s Prayer If it should be that I grow frail and weak And pain should keep me from my sleepThen you must do what must be done For this last battle can’t be won

You will be sad I understand Don’t let your grief then stay your handFor this day, more than all the rest Your love and friendship stand the testWe’ve had so many happy years what is to come can hold no fearsYou’d not want me to suffer, so when the time comes, please let me go.

Take me where my needs they’ll tend only, stay with me right to the endand hold me firm and speak to me until my eyes no longer see

I know in time, you will see it is a kindness you do to mealthough my tail its last was waved from pain and suffering I’ve been saved

Don’t grieve. It should be you who decides this thing you dowe’ve been so close, we two these years don’t let your heart hold any tears

Smile: for we walked together for a little while “

ok utopia it is not your dessicon to decide who should have a pet and who shouldnt. She/he may have been a first time owner who didnt know enough about cats or pregnent cats and by the sounds of it, it seems as the birth was going ok, for the first two kittens, maybe the cat had internal problems and wasnt able to deliver the two last kittens, something could have easyisly gone wrong and could go undetected. So it is not up to you to judge someone from what you hear, their might be another side to the story that you don’t know about, you shouldn’t jump to conclussions like that. Maybe some people think you are a bad pet owner, and I dont know, maybe you “should just have some stuffed toy animals” instead of a pet

stomlinson90 is grieving for her cat, why kick him/her when she/he is down? stomlinson90, its perfectly normal to feel upset for your cat, pets are a member of the family, and when a member of the family dies, a part of you dies, I know, when my horse died, I thought the world ended, I didnt go to school for weeks, I was depressed all the time, but she died while foaling, and she gave me a beautiful foal, looked just like her, and now, that foal is 3 years old, and means the world to me.

I am so terribly sorry about your cat BUT she should have been spayed. Please if you get another pet, have it spayed or neutered. Also, you would have been better to have left the kittens with the Vet, the way they died is horrible. Why give them to a friend that has a dog? Sigh, I am a big meanie for saying this but you probably should not have another pet. I just visited your profile, I thought you were a teenager and was wondering why your parents did not give you advice or step in. Imagine my surprise to learn that you are in your 30s. DO NOT get another pet…not everyone should have a pet…some should just have stuffed toy animals.

first of all if you miss your pet you CANNOT forget about her. If you think about her and cry, its ok, it just shows that yo ucare about her. I had many pets theat died :( I had a golden Retriever who got hit by a train, a cat that died when she was giving birth :( a golden lab died of old age, my one cat ran away and never came back, and my other cat left and never came back. Just don’t forget anything about your pet, and you dont have to embarrased if you burst out in tears

because your dead cat was probably the first thing you ever seen dead dude its dead im sorry but life is waiting for you to live it not so you can mourn about your dead cat dont stress your cat lived a good life it was just the cats time to go and wherever he may be now hes happy

Thank you imfromspace that really was inspiring and helped.

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so sorry

no worries I’ve seen it all and been through what you have meany times so im here if you need me ok.

My kitty Gizmo died having just recoved from peunomia (viral fluid in lungs) and pleurasie(viral fluid between ribs and lungs that doesn’t allow lungs to expend),I was so sad and she was only 8 months old.I stop thinking about her the same day when I went to school where in maths classe me and my friends where making jokes about our maths teacher,in other words I was having so much I zoned Gizmo out,then when I went home there was relics of Gizmo(a treat that she had nibbled,the jumper she wore when she was ill,her paw prints on my perfectly white sofa and most inportantly in item of clothing I hand made to keep her warm with her name hand sawn on the back).Then she got buried in one of her favourite spots to lay down on:just in front of the 500 year well she would nap on on hot summer days,then she got buried with her collar and adresse on and with her signature ginger hairdo sticking up naturally,Gizmo was burried in her favourite blanket with one off her feline friends named Gonkerella watching.And knowing that all that happy and always will and knowing that where ever she is she’s finally at peace just makes me at peace.

Hi, my kitten just died yesterday after he got hit by a car, the vets said he should be okay and let us take him home the next day but he had to be confined to a cage for 4 weeks because he had a fractured pelvis and a fractured thigh bone, he died later that evening a day and a half after bveing hit by the car :’(, i kn ow you asked this 8 months ago and i’m sorry if it brings back memories that upset you, but can i asked how did you/are you coping, i keep thinking he may be alive were we buried him but i’m not sure because i always thought cats were supposed to have nine lives but never knew how they loose one :S i have 2 other cats who were here before tommy(the 3 month old kitten who has just died) but my little 6 year old sister wants another kitten, do you think this is wrong and will make it harder for me to get over loosing tommy ??