Why cant I get a girlfriend?

No, believe me your not ugly Actually very attractive And you seem sensitive, not a “wussy” as been said Dont think your too nice, your probably pick the wrong girls Keep looking You’ll get it

Well your not going to get one by complaining about it on here no offense dude dont get pissed off at me for telling you this but.

YOU NEED TO BE A MAN. WOMEN LOVE MEN NOT WUSSY’s.

So walk hard, walk proud, dont sulk or drag your head down. Go up to a girl look her right dead in the eyes and start makin conversation in a cool way.

I gaurantee you that crap makes them blush and go crazy try it out on some average looking girls first dont try and go for Jessica Simpson right off the bat unless you really dont care about getting rejected. If you see Jessica though still make your move you would be suprised of what women will like in a man with a sense of humor.

Go out and be somebody.

Probably because most girls are crazy and too capricious. They change their mind constantly. One second, everything seems golden, the next, your single again..Or that most of em are materialistic and judge a guy too much on what kind of car they drive, living arrangements, etc.. this has been my experience with women, not promising…my advice would be just too dramatically change your life, if you can- move somewhere else, start breaking routines, when your too shy to say anything, no matter how high your anxiety is, say something- of course saying this and doing this are two different things..

if you are trying to maintain a relationship for the sake of filling some sort of time quota, it is not going to work. if the girl can sense that you are pushing for something more serious than she is ready for, it may scare her off. just relax and work on good friendships with the ladies you are around. Don’t get too caught up with labels. when a relationship does bloom, be clear and honest about your expectations (which shouldn’t be much in the begining) and your boundaries. It’ll happen, be patient. and not all women are attracted to “manly” men. there couldnt be a bigger turn off for me than blatant macho egotism. if I had to guess, I’d say you will probably end up dating girls with a tomboy attitude.

I can’t get a real girlfriend because I’m a complete and total loser in the game of life. I’m a loner and I get extremely nervous and get anxiety attacks in crowded social situations and when confronted with something stressful like meeting or talking to someone new. This sucks so much I don’t know if I’ll ever able to meet a female ‘in real life’ for now my only hope is people that I’ve met on the internet, maybe I will eventually find some girl who is a loner just like me and we can meet in real life.

Dear superman27e, Well perhaps it is a lack of confidence, or you play the victim too much? The nice guy syndrome is a bad habit to get into and show that you are not willing to look at why you have not been successful. Dating is a difficult ritual to begin with and when one does not learn how to do it properly it can cause some problems. Oprah has on her site really good advice on dating do’s and don’ts. Just like anything important to you, you must learn it, and practise it. Playing the victim and using the nice guy syndrome is a real turn off for most girls. So take some time to read up and try again. Sue…good luck

yea mate im in exactly the same position as you lol, I cant seem to get a girlfriend, but I fink thats because I tend to go for te girls that prefer the seriously cocky macho men, all the girls I get feelings for always end up seeing me as just a friend, probly because like u, I mite be too nice and I can be abit sensitive which it seems most girls dont like lol. all you gotta do is keep your head high and be proud, don’t let anyfing drag you down because it’ll get even harder to pull urself back up.

good luck.

Definitely not ugly.

I get the same problem,I’ve tried everything I work out at the gym play guitars,ice skate,all the cool stuff but still I dont have a girlfriend,I’ve seen lads that treat their women like dirt and it makes me wonder how they ever got a girl,im the same as you dude,im too nice with women ,its crazy you,d think women would like men being nice to them but they dont ,everythings back to front on this planet .

You just need to keep looking until you find the right girl who is happy to be with you for who you are.

haha yea ill try that. thanks