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Why can't I stay with just one girl?

I’ve always been unfaithful like cheating is a drug. I Kant help myself from bien a man hoe. I cannot be in a relationship nomatter how hard I try. If I see an opportunity to get with a girl I take it. Is there like a word for this kinda behavior. I really think it’s an addiction. So what word would you describe that behavior ?

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Answer #1

No one ever said (outside of religious texts) that The Rule is that you have to be in a committed, monogamous relationship in order to find love, sex, and happiness. It isn’t for everyone, and there are many, many examples out there of perfectly happy people in open relationships. If you feel that sex with multiple partners is something that you are going to need for a while, the next time you get into a relationship, just make sure you find a partner that is okay with that. This isn’t something you need to seek professional help over unless you decide you want to be in a relationship with someone who demands monogamy.

Until that day arrives, if it ever does, don’t let the Judeo-Christian attitude of ‘’one man, one woman’’ drive your goals for a relationship. Just make sure that everyone involved is being treated with respect.

Personally, I think this is more a case of youthful exuberance than the stirrings of a polygamist. You’re young and want to enjoy sex. It’s perfectly normal. If that’s the case, stay out of relationships until all your oats are sown and you’ll have no problems.

Answer #2

you may just like the female attention? I’m like that but male attention. I don’t sleep with anyone, or that I just kiss and flirt. gets me in rubbishy situations

Answer #3

you need to seek profesional help from a councellor to talk abut why you feel this way, the councellor can help discover why you have an urge to cheat you may have an addiction to sex and I would say to avoid being in a realtionship untill you get this problem sorted out if your going with a girl tell her frst that you just want sex and nothing more

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