Why can't I say I love you?

I am hurt and I became more of a closed book (Im not comfortable with telling my thought or feelings with anybody, not even my best friend) but that wasn’t with à guy but with my ex-bff lol. The situation isn’t completely what you think. The boy doesn’t love me and I know that. But I want to tell him how I feel and I can’t say something due of the incident with my bff… I need to talk to him, because he is à good friend, I feel miserable and Im even hurting myself..

Are you afraid? has he said “I love you” ? have you been hurt in the past? all these could be the reason. You could be actually afraid of love because someone in the past took those word as a game. It may be because it’s your first time to say that-maybe you want to be sure that he loves you before. I don’t know you so honestly I can’t say. but I know that I love my girlfriend so this might work for you: Don’t be afraid of what happened in the past, or what could happen in the future. Just focus on the here and now with him and soon, it’ll come to you :) In fact, have a talk with him about it sometime. Have him tell you that he loves you and I assure you that it will make you comfortable about it! Let me know how it goes.