Why can't I get over him?

Being a boy he obviously wants to use you in some way because if he really liked you he wouldve broke up with his current girl friend just for you,I know it hurts but you gotta get over him or else he’ll just end up ruining your life and other boys will think your pathetic or will just try to use you by comforting you then using you, you being a girl and be being in touch with my feminine side (Im not gay lmao) I know that girls have a lot of insecurities but you have to stop chasing a boy that you cant even catch, you can get someone better that guys a jerk, also hun you shouldnt cut yourself over someone like him or anyone, hurting yourself wont do anything but just get you even more upset/depress/hurt, try venting by screaming or by dong poetry thats what I do Hope I helped =) (Im seriously not gay I have a girl friend I’ve been going out with for 4 monthst and much more to go ^_^)