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Why can I only make myself cum with a vibrator?

I’ve tried using just my finger when I masterbate but It doesn’t even feel remotely good and fingering myself doesn’t give me any pleasure what so over so the only thing left to do is use a vibrator or this little massager thing that I have which I don’t alwaysss like to do. Is that normal that I can only make myself cum when I use a vibrator? Is anyone else like that? Why doesn’t it feel good at all when I use just my finger? =\ I watch alotta girls on porn who are just constantly rubbing there clit and making themselves cum sooo why can’t I ?

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Answer #1

Tell me just say I love you lol and that its all in your mind. When you are fingering yourself you are thinking of yourself doing it compared to when you use a vibrater it is like hands free I guess. You dont have to think so hard. So my answer to you is only finger yourself when you are really in the mood to let yourself know that is can be done or get a guy to do it for you or a girl you choose. Best of luck lol

Answer #2

I have the same exact problem.

Answer #3

You can use your fingers and hands as a vibrator by rapidly pulsing them on and off your pussy (well they don’t leave it as much as they apply pressure and then rest on the surface). By alternating between this hand-vibrator method and using one hand to rub myself in circles while the other plays with a nipple sure seems to work well for me. But you do have to build up your hand endurance a bit to be able to do that for over 20 minutes.

It’s a fun kind of exercise though.

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