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Okay so I use to like this guy but I stopped liking him because he was a meanie face! Anyways my bffl Tristan started acting strange so I asked her what was wrong and she told me that her and that I guy that I use to like were going out and that I have no reason to be mad at her because im a jealous b!tch and I have no right to judge her and what she wants to do and that all I ever liked him for is sex. Then he comes up to me and starts to tell me off like I need his crap! So Tristan came up and started talking crap again so I hit her! I wasnt even mad that they were dating but she set me off the edge! What im trying to ask is why would she say things like that to me if she was my friend and what would you do if you were in my situation?

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Answer #1

Like some friends,she was probably just trying to get under your skin and you allowed it a little bit and you don’t want that,if she’s dating him and you don’t like it,simply let it go so it doesn’t affect who you are.

Nicole,be smart,if she’s not being a good friend,take time away from her,fighting with her is just a waste of time.

Answer #2

ugh. Well. She’s obviously insecure. They both are. tol. She’s scared that you’re gonna steal him from her!! xD I don’t think that she’s a real friend… I mean… If she was, she should know that you wouldn’t care. And she wouldn’t say those things. Or she’s on her monthly. xP If I were you, for sure I’d confront her about it. And tell her how I felt about what she did. And explain things to her. Sometimes, you just have to tell it how it is. Be sure to let her know that you’re over the guy, and that you don’t care that they’re dating. She should get better after that… Best of luck!

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