Why are moms so annoying?

My mom is West Indian and she’s annoying. Lately, I’ve been the target being yelled at because I don’t help her cook, that I make dinner late, or I don’t sweep the living room or that I don’t clean up or do certian things. And I’m seriously not the only child here. I have 3 other siblings…my brother is a year older than me 18 and my younger sis is 14 and I also have an older sis in her 20’s. I hate doing things that makke me seem like a maid or something because it makes me feel bad like I’m the only one doing it. I understand that my mom works VERY hard and she’s ALWAYS yelling at me for some reason. I must admit that I’m pretty much lazy but I get the job done but in the end she’s never satisfied. I sux because I feel like a failure and lately I stopped satisfying her…especially with my grades and I’m tired. I just like to sit around and play games.

*What should I do to make her satisfied???

Answer #1

my mam is the same my little brother is only 4 years old and when he wants something he gets it its never fair she pays a lot of attention to them and she says im boring well I m not im fun and she says my fav hobby is eating watching tv and lazy and she dosnet pay attention to my sis thts 2 years younger than me and shes worse than me she dosnt let me do anything fun and her and my dad say im like my brother I shout when im anngry but I keep telling them I changed but they forget what I even said its not fair

Answer #2

my mom justnyells at me b/c I get mad when she puts her regular everyday activities in front of say my doctors appointments. (all the time!) then shesays im yelling at her but reall shes yelling soo loud she cant even her me.u know well, things always get worse before they get better so just brush it off and stay true to urself:)

Answer #3

because shes prob stressed out because of her own life and needs someone to take it out on…unfortunatley that person is you honeyy

Answer #4

my mums exactly d same wit me. im lazy and she has a go at me when I’m trying 2 help. I reckon all mums r.. just tel her you dun like it thats what I do and m mum apolygises..good luck!

Answer #5

usually my mom would yell at me because she’s mad at someone else and she takes it out on me. because im a perfect child :D moms are just like that and we have to deal with it. they have to find somethin wrong with us so they can yell at us. There’s no way to satisfy them. so good luck

Answer #6

Ik what you mean my mom was like im going on vaction and ill give you 2 days to decide and so the next morning at like 8 she made a desion for me and told me when I got home it was so annoying cause then I had to tell the people that I was going to stay with I couldnt

Answer #7

ok my mom is just the same she gives me a desion to make and gives me like 2 days in the next morning she made it for me she is annoying

Answer #8

My mother always compares me to my older sister saying I should be more like her…but only in a convinient sitiuation like “your sister dose her best to clean the house and you half do things” but whn it comes to things that I compare to my sister ges I am wrong for example my sister had two laptops her boyfriend broke the first one then my dadbought her another..but I had to try my best to win an essay competition to get the money to get myself one yup I am the last child and I always gt the short end o the stick…ont get me wrong I love my mother but she is such a pain in the @** sometimes

Answer #9

my mum is totally the same but different she totally messy like a teenage boy and I have to lean up aftre her. then she gets her sister and the rest of the family to gang up on me along with threatening to take away something I like doing.] Not only that she threatens to tell people about the fight. thats her thing she always gets other poeple involved. now shes threatening to tell my head of year at shool so he an take away some priveleges you get like trips. shes so ANNOYING. unluky for me I have no where to go beause she gets every1 on her side and shhe is divored. Alll im sayin is that your not the only 1 if it is any reassurance. you might aswell know that there is no solution you just have to live with it just in time when your old enough to move out!!!

Answer #10

My mom doesn’t ask me to help that much. What is so annoying iss that she dosnt pay attention. Ever. Than all of a sudden shell just come up to my room and try 2 talk. She just can’t do that. I really wish she was like my friends moms. Honestly she acts just like a little kid sometimes. Than she wants to all of a sudden be my best buddie. I wish she would just realize that she has ruined our reeltionship. Honestly she has no idea how much I hurt inside or what goes on in my life

Answer #11

MINE IS THE SAME WAY! ! ! SO I DON’T STAY WITH HER OR MY GRANDMA ANY MORE I COME AND GO NOW IM STAYING WITH MY AUNT IN STOCKTON YEA I KNOW THIS IS NOT AN ANSWER FOR YOUR QUESTION BUT I’M JUST SAYING I FELT AND FEAL THE SAME WAY SO JUST GET AWAY FOR A BIT MAYBE THAT WELL HELP IT HELPS ME

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