why are guys reluctant to talk with pretty girls?

I am 17 years old and I have long brown hair with blue eyes (I hate to sound conceited, but I am not ugly) and the fact of the matter is - I have never been kissed before. I just don’t get it - my friends are all beautiful girls and if we’re out together at a party, guys don’t seem too hesitant to talk with them. I know it’s just a kiss, but I feel like I’m going to be the only girl left in my year who hasn’t had a boyfriend ever let alone been kissed before she leaves school. If anyone has any advice on what to do, because I feel like I’m stuck in a bit of a rut at the moment.

Answer #1

Dont get to upset/worked up over it. Seriously there is heaps of girls that are in your position. Trust me. The right guy will come along to you sooner or later. You must feel sh*tty but dont be.

Answer #2

okay let me just say something right now ive been through allot of people ive kissed allot of people and have had my share of fun and im in a serious four year relationship with my future fiance and im 17 also feel lucky you havent been kissed because i dont care if your asexual or if u have no hormones when u got hormones just like everyone else u might take it further and even if all goes well u gave urself up to a guy ull never see again or maybe u will when u get kissed im telling u u might expierence that magical disney movie everything lights up kiss but its worth it over thousands of kisses id take back all my kisses except for my kisses from my future fiance but before that i never see those guys and im not spending my life with them im sure ur beautifull and this world is pretty fucked but guys do get intimidated afraid to get rejected or wasting there time but heres the real thing behind it girls who fit the worlds fucked up conception of pretty usually get hit on so much that the next guy comes along for the pussy ull just turn ur back to or u might give in who knows they dont so they go i like her but she probably gets hit on all day long she wont go for it shell think im being like all the other guys who attempted its usually like this a guy will hit on hundreds of girls hoping to get pussy and out of thsoe hundred he will get some u should feel damn lucky!!! ull get ur kiss and ull get much more where that come from i hope it doesnt turn into true rape or a bad situations or intentions but when u enter the sexual world be prepared for the worst and the ugly side of it u may not get the harrasment but id rather be safe then sorry youll find the one dont worry! if u want more info i got allot of it ive expierenced this world for 40 years and i havent even lived that long dont ask how but trust me i know allot and ive lived through expierence so if u need me email me at missperfection1@yahoo.com

Answer #3

I Talk TO every girl Not, only pretty ones, DOn’t worry sweety I’m 17 years old Male, Never Been Kissed, I proBably Won’t Have a kiss Meh, I don’t care I know u will though God Bless you Beautiful!!

Answer #4

Guys probly jus feel intimidated, n dat deyre scared of rejection, if u see a guy u like, den go up 2 him n u make da first move, it worked 4 me, n should probs work 4 u 2.

Answer #5

Without knowing it you might be sending out vibes that discourage guys from talking to you or approaching you. Try a big smile on your face and don’t act like you are above anyone.

Answer #6

I must admit that I kind of act the same way around pretty girls. I think that it’s because i feel like I’m not in their league, that they are so pretty there only gonna go for the really hot guys or the jocks or whatever. So if there not gonna be interested in me I’m not gonna try. Obviously I am wrong, but it’s just the way I think. Guys might feel intimidated around hot girls, so don’t take it personally. I’m sure you’ll get a great guy in no tome.

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