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Why are guys so slow?

ok that’s not fair not all guy’s are slow, but the one’s i talk to ARE!! im hard to get i mean really hard to get,guy’s like the chase so why cant they figuer out how i fell? if i want them to kiss me they cant tell if i want them to talk to me they cant tell,why are they so slow? i dont get guy’s, women are so simple all we really want is honesty,loyalty, and respect, and you’v got us, there’s this guy that i know and he is SLOW he like’s me but he wont make a move why?

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Answer #1

Why don’t you just come straight out with what you want?? Just take charge. He’s probably scared of what you may think of what he feels. Guys have all the same feelings women do. And that’s NOT a stereotype. You’ll be better off by telling him how you feel and cutting the “chase” short, which is probably just a bother to him AND you anyway..

Answer #2

You’re stereotyping a lot here. :P Like you said, not all guys are slow. Not all guys like the chase, and not all women want honesty, loyalty, and respect!

Most people, male or female, are not mind readers. That means they probably don’t know what you’re thinking, but that certainly does not make them slow.

There are many reasons why someone might not make a move. He might not be sure how you feel. He might be afraid you’ll laugh at him. He might be afraid of not kissing very well. He might be afraid he has bad breath. Who knows? There are many possibilities.

You could always come right out and tell him how you feel or what you want.

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