Why am I obsessed by my appearance?

yeah I feel the same way sometimes…everywhere you turn there is a skinny girl or a gorgeous blonde or ssomething you just think why did I get all the left over crap right? I mean you feel like you were just made together by the parts nobody wanted right? I feel that way all the time but it is important to relize that you r gorgeous the way you r and nobody will ever have to say your ugly…people who think others are ugly are in fact uglier than they appear. I have a hideous bridge in my nose and its long and ugly so the first thing I look at in magazines and stuff is their noses…and then I relize that I am freaking out over something that is so small…just forgte bout it! if you want to talk more just funmail me because I dont mind and I hate feeling like the only one who feels like this so whenever you want to talk just hit me up with a fun mail k? btw im 14 to! so im not some 50 year old creep! lol

First of all you need to change your profile name – what would you think if someone else called themself Monkeywalrus ? Next you need to give yourself a chance to grow and mature without always questioning your looks, etc. Right now you are very pretty and you need to tell yourself that. You have a lot of time yet in your life, you are still young. Too early for you to be concerned with comparing yourself to others especially in looks. Look at your morales, your goals for life, it is not what someone sees on the outside but what comes from the inside and who you become later in life and how you live life now that matters. I see so many more things you should be concerning yourself with rather than your looks right now; such as, the company you keep, keeping up your grades, planning for college, getting right with God. Everything else will come in time; and you will be even more beautiful than now. Increase your self-esteem by getting motivation books and cd’s. Joel Osteen has a very good one out. Check it out.

omg…you have got to be kidding me.. you are NOT ugly by far. you have absolutely NOTHING to worry about.

and if you think you are ugly, you wouldnt have so many pics of yourself… so you most likely only want the compliments.. but, I don’t know.

you are not ugly. you probably think you are ugly because you have low self esteem… or because you tell yourself that you are ugly so often that you think it’s true.

Your constantly telling yourself that is what you are which is getting into your head and you are actually beginning to believe it. dont compare your self in compariosn to others, everyone is an individual, no body is perfect. tell your self teh opposite and you’l be amazed with the results, be positive, love yourself and others will love you too.

I think somebody is fishing for complimentss

Stop putting yourself down, its not going to make you feel any better about yourself.

Ugly? Ya right. . . Your not Ugly at all. . . .pretty cute for a 14 yr old. . . . .