Why am I so hurt by my boyfriends sexual experiences?

You and your boyfriend don’t seem to have the same definition of what sex is about. You might feel that sex is sacred, to be shared with someone you love and not to be taken lightly. Your boyfriend seems to be into experimenting, having multiple partners and casual sexual relationships. This is probably why you feel so uneasy about his attitude towards sex. The fact that he has cheated on others in the past and broken your trust already doesn’t seem to be good news. If you are looking for a faithful partner that is ready to commit one hundred percent, you might not have found him yet. I think it’s not the fact that he desires others that makes you sick but the fact that he might cheat and that you might not be his number one at all times. My best advice is to have a deep heart to heart talk together about how you see your relationship and if it’s worth continuing. If he still wants to experiment, have threesomes, and have casual sex then I don’t think it’s worth your broken heart. Then again, if he wants to change his ways and truly wants to commit, he have to work on gaining your trust and showing you that he has changed.

I personally believe you shouldn’t be dating him. The fact that he is just WILLING to tell you about his past sexual experiences would make me doubt our relationship. This is me personally, but I think sex should only be with two people. In a threesome, one person is bound to get more attention than the other. And you say he chats online with other women behind your back. I believe he doesn’t understand what sex REALLY is.

You can do better than this. He does not deserve you if he can’t see how special you are. I’d say dump him, but maybe you can talk things out with him. Tell him that hurts you and I’m sure if the shoe were on the other foot, he would not appreciate it either. :)