Why am I not playful like him?

Me and my boyfriend are in the 9thgrade and have been dating for a year, but he’s very playful and hates talking about seriouse stuff but will tell me he loves me. We’ve already had sex and he treats me like one of his friends, but I want him to treat me like he’s actually in love with me. Help?

Answer #1

Don’t think he doesn’t love you, playfulness is just in his personality type.. His traits ya know.. If you pay attention to older married couples, they seem very playful with each other, why? Because lovers are friends and I believe that’s his view on things. If however if you don’t feel like he’s taking things seriously talk to him about it. At this age you should be able to talk about anything with him.

Answer #2

Well, you can’t make someone love you. And I think that if he isn’t taking your relationship seriously and if he treats you like everyone else, you shouldn’t be together. I don’t know him but the way you say it makes it sound like all he wants from you is sex. I don’t think you are the problem, it’s him. You shouldnt have sex with him again until you know for sure he loves you because if he doesn’t, what’s the point? When you have sex it should be thought of as making love. Well, in my opinion.

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