Why am I like sad all the time?

I also had that same problem. I had the same attitude. I’d fake a smile, fake a laugh, just so people wouldn’t wonder.. I always thought I was hideous, and had the lowest selfesteem ever, and still kinda do. but eventually things got better for me and I’m happier, just give it time. :)

OMG, YOU ARE ME. same age, same mood, same everything. I used to have low self confidence & self esteem. There are so many girls that look hotter than me and are better than me. And I always thought I had a really bad life unil I heard about others.

EVERYONE has flaws. EVERYONE has problems in their life. Boys dont want stuck up and conceded girls. They want confident girls that love what they have. Dont wish you had other things, love what you have right now. Sooner or later things will change. Your body will change, like if you dont have boobs now you sure will have them later. Everything happens for a reason. I now am a boy magnet & have a wonderful boyfriend. Just put your shoulders back, put your chin up high, and love yourself. Because there are others that wish they had things you have.

You know I hated myself because I was small breasted and although I was very pretty and had a -lot of friends they didn’t see what I saw when I looked in the mirror. I decided one day the face the mirror one on one and strip myself of all my clothing and said you are somebody and cried and cried and kept looking and realize that this is how God made me and to look at it as a blessing and not a cruse. It takes time and be honest with yourself and then and only then you will find you!

God Bless

I don’t think it’s depression I just think you are not happy with the life you have. You need to make a best friend or get together with your best friend and do something fun. Something you won’t forget. Share feelings tell her what’s wrong she could help a lot. Think of all the homeless people out there and think of how lucky you are to have a family and to not be out there. Email me and I’ll give you more advise. I’m Meg. please reply. :):):) hope you feel better!!!:):):)

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I’m going trough the same thing right know. And I feel you complitly. I think this is depression and I think you should get help. Self steem is just not being happy whit you, whit your life. I’m guessing you do have someone to talk to and to turn to so go ahead and do it. Try to find the good side of life, which is what I’m traying to do right know and also, try to hold in there. I know is hard. I’m also 13 and my world seems like is falling apart, but I think that what is happening is that we are letting it fall on top of us. If we just fight and push it up when it’s trying to crash I think we will win the battle.

I don’t really know what more to tell you sience I’m going almost trough the same thing. I guess believeing and also finding 1000 ways to be happy when life gives you 100 to be sad.

GOOD LUCK:)

Hi It’s not about self esteem it’s about were you want to be in your life right now. Your view and morals are set to reach higher grounds and you need to get out and be active weather it be with friends or just by yourself. Try going to a movie by yourself I recommend the new movie Precious. You have a lot to give and because you can’t find that oulet it sucks you in and drains you of your happyness. Get postive and motovated and put a beautiful smile on your face because you are somebody special. lol.

yes its depression and you might want help dont talk to school conslurs they dotn help try seeing a therpist call the deprison number and just talk to people look up a depression number on like google and call it but only if you are reallly depressed and if you really need someone to talk to you can comment or message me on funmail im willing to help

it happens to me sometimes too.. I acctualy stopped looking in mirrors about a year ago because of it. it probably isnt depression and could just be a phase. but you never know. try to talk yourself outta it. it might make you feel better if you find a phrase to say that makes you feel bettter and just repeat it. it works for me