Why am I in love with a loser?

beautifulgirl- thanks for your suggestions but my father is a really successful business owner and I have a great relationship w/my parents :) thats why im so confused about this. but I think your right that hes not any good for me, and he probably wont change…

Well maybe its that you have fallen in love with him… also I think you should ask him to try to become better … because that of not having nothing and things like that aren’t going to work out at the end… he needs to step up and mature…

ya that sucks, not much you can do about it unless you choose to leave him. But I know a couple people like your boyfriend. And I found that people that who have no ambition in life, no goals, no motivation to get and hold a job, they just don’t change. Be 25 living in their parents basement. And if they are able to mooch off of anyone they will. Even if he’s sweet and treats you good, plenty of other guys will too, ones with futures. You at an age where you need to look after yourself, you shouldn’t let this guy drag you down with him

u must love him for his personality or something, talk to him about it… tell him what you just told us, if he loves you enough he may try and change