What's the average amount of sex?

Honestly, you’re out of the “Honeymoon” phase and have a child (which probably demands a lot of attention), you have jobs and you have other things to worry about, so yes this is normal. After you get married your life changes and some things get put on the back burner. You can however change that. A friend of mine told me once that her husband and her only had sex one time in a month. She got creative. She wrapped herself in clear saran wrap and let him unwrap her. Apparently this helped their sex life. Just get creative and remember that every couple (after marriage) goes through this at some point.

well…why not try some toys?

or plan a night when your husband and you can have the little one stay over a friend’s house for the night and just be together and play? I think both of you might just be tired and burned out with having a young family and most people’s sex drives take a nose dive after they have a baby…

don’t worry…just get some sleep and then worry about “play time” for you and your husband when there’s time to be creative…