Who would you choose??

I think you need to make a list, an HONEST list. One column his GOOD qualities, and the other column his BAD qualities. Then honestly consider what your parents say about him, is it remotely true? If yes or no, now consider why they think or say the things they do about him. There must be some reason behind it, they didn’t just make it up out of the blue, did they? Then, if the BAD qualities are things that are not serious, talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you both have to be mature and sit down with your parents. Agree that in conversating with your parents you may still disagree but agree to disagree and move on. Let your parents know you would like to have a sit down to discuss why they feel the way they do about him. If they refuse to do the sit down with both of you then tell them you are trying to understand their views and if they are not mature enough to sit down and put it out on the table then you cannot understand their point of view. Then, and only then should you take on the burden of choosing between family and him.

Believe me it wasn’t any easy thing getting the annulment it was simply because neither one of us was ready to be married six months into our relationship. Its because there were times that he would just drop me off when we were in a fight I would stay with my parents off and on just to give each other space. We are going to go to counseling thats for sure and I know it is going to clear everything up.

Sounds like your dad is being harsh about his views on your boyfriend. I don’t know all the details, but it seems like there is more of a reason as to why your parents may not like your boyfriend? I mean no parent wants to see their kid run off to get married and then shortly later have an annullement but why really does your dad not like your boyfriend aside fr that incident?

Whose idea was the annulement? I think there is no rush to get married. If you can stay together and have a wonderful realationship without being married, now that I think is much harder!

You see they are upset because we got an annulment too soon into our relationship because we had gone out to Vegas and got married and now they are using that and other information as an excuse to not like him when they really didn’t give him a chance. My father said to him he doesn’t care if my man drops dead and that really made me angry, what would you ladies do about that?

I have the same problem, I chose my boyfriend because my family was very in supportive and so is his it makes our relationship harder but in a way stronger as we have been through a lot and always fight and threaten to leave and we haven’t yet. My advice to you is to see where your relationship is going and if your happy, and if your family will forgive you for ditching them over your guy, if the answer is no keep your family, as family is always there sadly sometimes guy are not.