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Who should I choose between my boyfriend or family ?

My family gave my evrything in life and my boyfriend he loves me I love him hes reay to marry me but im not sure what todo becuase my family wantz me to marry someone who loves me a lot becuase my boyfriend smokes and takez weed thats why he drinks to so he aint healthy I don’t know what 2 do I luv my family a lot x what do I do ?

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Answer #1

I think he should renew his lifestyle a little, and think that you should take his amount of smoking weed n’ drinking into count before you make the decision. Smoking weed and drinking is what my sis’ boyfriend did and it nearly destroyed her, cause the more he smoked or drank, the more selfish and greedy he got. Luckily she is out of it now, and of cause we’re supporting her as much as we can cause we all love’s her nomatter who she is dating, even though we were very worried as long as she were with him. I am sure your family just want you to be happy in a relationship that is healthy both physically and mentally…

It may sound all exagerrated, but since I don’t know your boyfriend, I am using big examples to make you get the idea how your family might think.

Answer #2

Follow your heart. A lot of people smoke weed thats not really that big of a deal. If you really love him then marry him. Your family will always be there for you at the end of the day. He should tone done the drinking though. I mean I don’t have a problem with normal people that drink but like my biological father gets on my nerves drinking. He becomes an asshole. but if your boyfriend is like not turning into some drunk who’s a completly different person then you should be good.

Answer #3

tanx guyz any other solutions ?

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