Who knows about the Pars defect surgery ?

Yeah I have tried all that. Nothing worked because its already a full blown break. Im now looking into the surgery for it but trying to find releif in the mean time and see if anyone has had the surgery for it. I was told about ayear or so ago about it but I’ve always known somthingwas wrong with my back just never new a word for it. Well my doctor gave me the word Parsdefect and I was born with it so I’ve had it around 20 years. When I told my lifelong chiropractor about it he said he already new I had it and never told me whatto do about it he just kept telling meto come backso he can reajust me…Well now that nothing had been done for so long by thetime I new what it was and tried physical thearapy , cortizone shots and etc it had already lead to the nerv damage so now I have problems with restless legs, numbness and pins and needles. So if you know anything about the surgery please let me know im really scaredabout it because having a 3 yr old daughter I dont want to remess up my back if I do do the surgery. I have no other options left tho because imonly 20 and I can bearly walk or doanythiing other people my age can do. Its a struggle for me and I just cant LIVE this life anymore in thiskind of pain its only getting worse.