Who has hooked up with guys (girls, please) and your experiences?

So this guy is really sweet and nice and he is a junior and I am a freshman (in high school). We had a class together (ethics, ironically) and he randomly started chatting with me once and we kinda txtd a little as well. I told him after he wanted to hang out with me a few times before that I wanted to get to know him first. He then told me he just wanted to hook up. I actually want to as well. I am pretty sure he would not tell because it would not be good for his reputation and blahblahblah. BUT point is I was wondering what girls here have hooked up as a freshman (HS)? what was it like? Do you regret it? Any advice would be great. THANKS- happy holidays

Answer #1

I’ve done it. I hooked up with a couple seniors and juniors and sophmores freshman year. it’s not really bad but if you want a relationship than that’s not the way to do it. most older guys say they won’t tell but they’;; tell a couple people than it’ll get around to more people and soon enough the whole schoool. the only bad thing is that when other guys find out you’ve been hooking up with guys, then they might try to use you. just be smart about it. good luck :]

Answer #2

Meh if you wouldn’t regret meaningless make out then go for it. All’s it really is, is square dancing for your tongue ha. If you think you would feel ‘’violated’’ or ‘’dirty’’ afterwards, or anything bad, then I don’t suggest you do it. It is a blip in your high school life and certainly a unique experience.

Answer #3

also when he says hookup he means make out not sex, and I would definitely never have sex with him

Answer #4

I am now a sophmore in high school, and I had sex for the first time last year, freshman year. I had sex with a sophmore, then I got addicted, then I had sex with 2 juniors, then a senior. People wont really call you a slut but you’ll know what you did. if you want to do it, just do it. but keep in under control, use protection . everybody does it and you dont think its a big deal. I now have an amazing boyfriend, we waited 2 months to have sex, and I still talk to my first a little bit, its not awkward or anything but everybody found out. so it just depends on what your willing to risk. but dont let him fck you then him go around and say “ yeah I fcked her then left her “ or any shit like that, dont let ANYBODY take advantage of you.

Answer #5

I wouldnt do it. I liked this guy & I made out with his friend too make him jealuos. DONT DO IT. people will think your a slut. dont randomly hook up. ever. me & the guy havent spoken in forever. & people always talk shit behind my back. if you want expierence go whit guys from another school.

Answer #6

Yes its ok

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