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Who has ever lost their 'closest' friends?

I have a friend that I’ve known since I was 12, and I’m almost going to be sixteen now. It was me and brenda, and then sophia joined in in 9th grade. Since then, we were all extremely close. Except we got into that phase where we’re so close to one another we forget how mean we can be at some times. Well, that’s what happened! It was a slow process, sophia & brenda made everyone else feel like the third wheel. Randomly, sophia would just pull the cold shoulder and invite only brenda to places in front of me. I remember once I was at the mall with them and I was in the middle and I was talking, and sophia pushed me out and said, “I want to be in the middle.” I guess she realized what she did and said, “well, it’s because you’re so much smaller that I feel weird next to you.” so I just moved to the other side. It’s as if they’re in love with one another and it really makes me feel excluded at times. I don’t need all the attention but I feel like they’re not the right friends for me anymore. If I do this, I won’t have any friends at my school anymore. I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do. Maybe I’m being to dramatic, lol. What do you think?

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Answer #1

This is something that is very comman and can be hard if you are not in the loop. Just continue to be friendly but also start to envolve yourself with others. You can never have to many friends. You could also let them know how they making you feel and just ask if their is something that you have done wrong. Best to be up front and know where you stand than tiptoing around uncomfortable situations. Good Luck, and remember real friends are those who can handle you at your worst!

Answer #2

I barely have any friends at school. I love it. people leave me alone. and friends like that dont matter because they dont respect you at all and if you dont want to be friends with them anymore just go and meet some other people

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