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Who do I chose? My Ex or My Best friend?

Well it seemed lately that my best friend Mitch was acting kind of strange. I asked my ex Aaron(me and him are still friends but I still love him-a lot) what was going on and he told me that the two of them were in a fight because Mitch liked me. they used to be best friends but now they wont even speak! I dont wanna chose sides but it feels like im losing both of them. what should I do!!! should I tell my ex I still have feelings for him, or should I give mitch a chance? please help!!

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You obviously don’t feel the right way about Mitch to date him, so don’t hurt him by messing him round like that. Stay friends with Mitch and let the two of them sort it out. If you like your ex, tell him. Don’t feel bad about it - Mitch is your friend and has no right to dictate your love life especially if he hasn’t owned up to you. Just don’t mention it to Mitch, act like it’s all normal, and go after your ex… unless you broke up with your ex for legit reasons. If your ex isn’t interested, just be single and happy and wait for a guy to come along that is so amazing, you dont have to question if you should pick him! :)

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