Who can explain something simple to me?

Ok, this is probably stupid, but anyway.

I always hear that girls want a guy who is affectionate, loving, caring, but my ex-girlfriend (2 years) says that she “never wanted my “deep love sh!t” and stuff like that, so im wondering, have people lost the whole idea behind love? Or is my ex is particular just to shallow to accept it?

Btw, I wasnt ever overly obbsessed wth her, so thats not it. In fact, we never really acted like more than friends… I give much more love and attention to the girl I like atm, but im “not good enough for her” so im gonna wait with that one.

But yeh, has anyone else noticed this on anyone they know? Because my ex was always sayng “I didnt sign up for a love over-dose” and sh!t like that.

Answer #1

she just started going out with my best friend… yeh, she’s rather insane

Answer #2

Honey I think your EX was crazy!

Answer #3

Well there’s two possibilities here, either she wasn’t in love with you (so your show of affection made her uncomfortable) or either she felt suffocated for any amount reasons that may have nothing to do with you. (I.e.: she’s been abused, she likes her independence, she’s not from a touchy feely family, etc:)

Every relationship different, every person is different so there’s no need to generalize and think that every girl out there will be or is like her. Obviously, you guys weren’t meant to be. You gave it a try, you learnt a lot and now you know that you need someone that can also give back. Don’t let this bring you down and give up on those potentially great girlfriends out there. Its not about not being good enough for someone else, it’s about being good together.

Answer #4

Look, all girls are different! We girls know what we like and what we dislike! It’s usually hard to find an affectionate, loving, caring guy like you described but wether your girlfriend is loved up or not just treat her good and try and be the best guy you can be and be yourself because every girl likes that!

Answer #5

Look all girls are different! We girls are picky and know what we like and dislike and it’s usually hard to find an affectionate, loving, caring guy like you said. So wether your girl is all loved up or not just try and be the best guy you can be and be yourself because all girls like that!

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