Which one do you prefer?

I would say after because it’s so much to to be with someone who you know loves you.I think that you can tell whether or not you will have sexual chemistry by the way they make you feel when you see them and talk to them. I would rather work on sexual chemistry for the rest of my life with one person then try out several different people.

after!!! what pleasure would it b to have known you saved your virginity to the 1 you might spend the rest of your life with!

I would say before! I think your sexual chemistry is just as inportant as your emotional one! I want to know what im getting into when I marry a guy. If you have ever seen sex and the city where charlotte waits till marriage to have sex with her husband then relises he has erectile disfunction and refuses to get help!

I mean sex is a huge part of a relationship and it build huge bonds so its hard to see how compatible you are withsomone without knowing them inside and out :)

I would say after marriage… because then you know your not just being used to get some pleasure and that hte person loves you ad was willing to wait for you and it just makes it better. I know for me I want to be the only one my husband has been with and to give him that too. This way it doesn’t complicate things you dont have any chance of being a teen mom and single mom. I think it’s just all around better because you know that that person loves you and wants to be with you and not just get sex out of you and just use you.

I’ll go with ‘sex before marriage’ …because I’ve never been married.

yah your tottaly rite.

Before. Because I don’t ever want to get married. plus it’s not like im religous or anything…

After marriage, in my opinion. Sex before marriage is called fornication, which is…well, something that isn’t good. =P

After - the Bible says it is a sin, referred to as ‘fornication’.

After!! too many reasons why I think that!

After, God said so. God loves you all.

After Marriage kuz then you won’t have to worry about being pregnant So yah