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Which guy should I be with?

i need help. which guy should i choose? both really cute and both are really nice and sweet.

guy 1: he asked me out yesterday and i didnt give him an answer. kissed him twice, no sparks

guy 2: hes my friends with benefits, went out on a date with him, had fun but neither one of us was ready for a relationship. i feel sparks with him.

which one? i like both of them and i cant choose. ive asked my friends, ive made lists, and guy 1 wont stop calling me. i dont know what i want right now. i just got out of this 2 year long relationship.

xo KC

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Answer #1

Dear kaychin, You just got out of a 2 year relationship…you should not be choose anyone of them. This is a time for you to reflect on the past and to heal. #1 may be calling because he has heard of # 2 getting the benefits without the moral obligation of a relationship. You may be vulnerable right now and easily used. So step back for a bit and give yourself time. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

You should be with your friends, and chill for little while. Clear the crap out of your head, and then choose.

Answer #3

I don’t think you should pick either, well for now anyways. if you don’t feel sparks with guy #1 your never going 2. and if you and guy #2 aren’t ready then your just not ready. you should take some time to figure out what you want. I’ve heard some of your question. and you seem like a smart woman who can handle herself. So if you really want one of these men than it should be an easy choice. but if your unsure. (like you are now) then you should take your time to build up your relationships with these men. Once you get to know the real them. The choice won’t be hard. Hope you find what your looking for. Best of luck. :)

Answer #4

In this situation I advice always that: both :)

Answer #5

What ever your heart leads you to do.

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