Which one.

Well there’s this one boy, he likes me even though I’m weird and he’s a really sweet guy and stuff and stands up for me and my friends, but the problem is one of my closeish friends fancies him but he won’t go out with her and if I ever went out with him it would really badly upset her, and I told her I would never go out with him because of it, but I really like him too.

& the other boy lives near me but is also like cousins with one of my closest friends, he thinks I’m alright and he’s so funny and kind, but apparently if I ever went out with him my friend would be really creeped out because he’s younger and related to her?

I’m gunna give up on one of them but I like them both so much.. Which one? It’s probably harder to get over the first one as I see him everyday, but the 2nd one is hard to.

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Answer #1

well.. if you really dont want to upset your friend bc she liked him too, I think you shhould go out with the second one. your friend will get over the fact that hes her cousin once she sees how you 2 feel about each other.

Answer #2

First, kindly tell your friend that you like him too. It sounds like you’re a really great friend to say you won’t go out with him because she likes him, but you shouldn’t have to lose out on a maybe-great relationship because of it. It’s hard to say, but tell your friend how you feel about the boy. Try to say nice things about her and your friendship, like… “You must have good taste in boys! [friend’s name], you’re awesome, although we both like this guy, nothing will get in the way of our friendship.” No matter what, bad-confrontation with a friend sucks, but it’s just something we gotta do. Whatever you decide to do, good luck! :)

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