Which one ?

Lovers over friends? Friends over lovers? Help please. Oh and tell me why.

Answer #1

it breaks down like this: friends sometimes make the best lovers. sometimes lovers make the best friends. sometimes friendships are destroy because sex came into the picture sex will always change things between two people no matter how much you think it won’t it always does as sex will most likely complicate things

so, what is more important to you

friendship or romance

Answer #2

You should never have to choose between the two and if thats the case then the person/people making you choose don’t deserve to be in your life at all.

Answer #3

It depends on the criteria, you can’t just ‘make a rule’ and follow it unconditionally.

Answer #4

yep, as stephanie said there shouldnt be any reason to choose between the two but generally when you need to, its freinds first however, make sure you know who your real freinds are first

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