Which guy should I choose?

well thats whats goin on with me both of these guys asked me out there names are patrick and joseph both of them are 14 years old and I just can’t choose between them even if I did one of them would be heart broken and I don’t break any hearts

If you say your boyfriend is not paying all that much attention to you now, then it looks like he’s getting a little bored himself. Try talking to him about how you feel and if things don’t perk up then go for the friend. You’re young you should be testing the other fish in the sea. And if things don’t work out with the friend then there are more opportunities out there.

That is almost word for word what I am going through. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months, and we love each other, but sometimes I get bored and it seems like he does, too. I met this guy in September and consider him an extremely close friend, however he has liked me since he met me. My boyfriend and I went on a break a week ago, and I tried seeing how things went with my friend, because I thought I felt a crush, too. However, after a kiss, I realized how much my boyfriend means to me. Your friend will always be there for you. If he doesn’t want to be just friends anymore, then he obviously doesn’t care about your happiness. You should stay with your boyfriend. You likely won’t be together forever, but if you don’t know if you want to break up with him yet, then you’re not ready. And, if he seems bored, talk to him about it. After I talked to my boyfriend about it we realized it’s just because he was busy with his friends, and I with mine. You shouldn’t expect your boyfriend (not just your current one) to devote all his time to you, there are other things in life, however that doesn’t mean you are not important. Just stay with your boyfriend until you know what you want, because it doesn’t seem like you do yet. Good luck.

I have the same problem. my boyfriend of 6 months is getting kinda on my nerves but we never fight…I feel the love from him…I see him not as much as I would like…I started hanging out with my ex that I was dating 8 moths and I love hanging out with him…he wants me back and doesnt want to be my friend…I want to be with him but I dont want to leave my boyfriend just of a sudden because im afraid I will miss him like I missed my ex… I would give anthing to anyone if they would tell me what to do…