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Where and how can I meet this guy?

so this guy kept asking me to hang out, which to him really means hookup. I did not completely know that…he is a junior and I am a freshman (in high school) if I wanted to actually hookup (not sex, make out) with him, where and when should I do it because I dont want my parents to know. please don’t judge me, and I am not a slut btw. thanks to people who answer with an open mind. happy holidays :)

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Answer #1

a late movie in a big shopping center. see the movie, make out during it, and afterwards go for a walk and find a place and go for it. everything starts to close around 10-11ish so its usually emptyer, and just go behind a building if you can. simplest solution usually.if not, go to his house for a ‘project’ or to ‘study’ with one of your friends or something and have him/her not show up, or leave early. works almost every time if you can get it to happen.

Answer #2

haha..just go hang out at a public place then. or his place. and yeah if you real want to maek out with them then go for it..its about learning during high school. and so on,.

Answer #3

It would be easier to hook up at either yours or his house when the parents arnt home. If thats not possible, then maybe a back seat of a car.

Answer #4

Do have any place in mind where you want to be once you’re with him?

Usually, it’s the guy’s prerogative to take the girl wherever he sees fit - but in your case, the secret place of your choice should be considered - be it in the backseat of a car parked in an isolated, wooded area, or something like that.

I agree with what other guys told about the fact of having a boyfriend is a learning experience. In case things get hot, bring a condom and a pepper spray with you for good measure… ‘because you many never know…

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