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Where 2 draw the line

okay I’m 16 and I jus got my first boyfriend who I seriously like seriously but the thing is he lil more “worldly” than me well almost everyone is because I in been doin nuttin that counts as nything I mean 12 years these days more out there than me but I in bothered by that I quite fine wid my “greenness” and I comfortable round he and stuff…and he know I in havin sex wid or I in gun give he head or nin I jus want to know was normal stuff because well well I’m jus weird I jus wan know what normal people do in relationships so I cud decide where I drawn my line because everything would be weird 2 me since well..u know I’m a freshy and you can throw in stuff like you 2 young an dem stuff because I wan know where would be good 2 draw the line

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Answer #1

It is all about you! There is no line at all, just the public and morale perception of things. You need to make your own boundaries. With the relationship and “normal” thing; think about a hobby you like and work off of it. I like to go fishing so I know the most secluded and most romantic place in the nearby lake: Bass Lake. You are not too young to do anything, believe me on this. You can make in impact on the world when you learn to walk and talk. In the 1300 11 year old girls were married off to men in their 20’s. It is all about media and it is also becoming a population control type of thing. You will break out of your shell, most people have a hard time talking to people.

Too jumbled up it seems… I have mixed feelings about being too young for things and the definition of “normal”.

Answer #2

Ok this is just what i would do if a girl wanted to have sex with me and i was uncomfortable i would just say ‘’Sorry but i dont wanna do this now’’ and if they really love you then they will accept your request and say ‘’Ok maybe when we are abit older?’’ but that is what i would do if you wanna go for it then go for it

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