When will I be able to get over this fear?

I lost my fathers years ago to cancer, and I am resentful about it. I am terrififed I am going to lose my mother now. I have no first cousins, and no aunts or uncles. My grandmother lives with us and we dont get along. I had a boyfriend whom I was with for two years and loved dearly, and we recently broke up and don’t speak at all. I love her, but I am resentful that she is here and not my father. Everyone I have ever loved always leaves me. I am terrified one day I am going to be completely alone in this world, and I rather not be here at all if thats teh case. It consumes my daily thoughts. What do I do?

Answer #1

I’m sure she is fine. I used to think that everyone would be gone and I would have nobody. Then I started being more social and I got more firends and family is in perfect health and I knew everything was fine. All you really have to do is believe :)

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Answer #2

this is exactly how I feel. my father had a heart attack and died 5 years ago, and all I have is my mum and sister.

you have to remember that you wont be dependent on other people for long. and soon you will be your own person with your own life, a new life where your friends can be your family.

Answer #3

find the person you trust the most and fill out godfather or godmother forms

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