When you lose your virginity?...

When you lose your virginity, is it better to have a boy who has experience or a guy who’s a virgin going into it too?

Answer #1

I does not matter as long as you love them

Answer #2

I lost my virginity to a guy with more experience. I don’t love him, but it was a lot of fun and he new what he was doing so he knew what to do, like when to go slow, when to speed up, how to get me ready for it and stuff. I’m not telling you to just go and find someone with experience to have sex with but I have no feelings beyond attraction and friendship for this guy and it was great.

Answer #3

I would say itz better when you do it with a guy who you really love,dont do it with any guy because itz your first time and you need to remember the 1st time.do it when you are ready and with a person you love.

Answer #4

uhhh I dont think it matters really as long as you really love them. if he’s a virgin too though it might be more like bonding and intense. lol I have no idea.

Answer #5

It’s better to BE a virgin and get married to a virgin and then have sex. Aftr u r sure u r perfect 4 each other. :)

Answer #6

omg i didnt think someone like you excisted!!! <3 you are so right! me and my boyfirend both are virgins and are planing to get married before we do anything we’ll regret

Answer #7

When u try to enjoy heaven on earth.

Answer #8

I was 25. It was my birthday. I’d been seeing my boyfriend for about a year. I didn’t start out intending to have sex, but I must admit that I had thought about it. I had wanted him for a while, but I was raised to wait for marriage. Still, on this particular day my desire for him was especially strong.

My boyfriend said he had a very special birthday present for me, so we went to his house. There he carried out a well executed seduction. I was more than a bit reluctant, but I was in love with him, so eventually his gentle persistence won me over. He was kind, persistent, sweet, romantic, gentle, and persistent and respectful of my feelings and eventually my resistance fell away. I couldn’t resist anymore.

He had mentioned to me a few times that he had an urge to make love to me, but that he respected my feelings enough not to pursue it. I had felt the urge too, but I had always managed not to succumb to it. Somehow, this day felt different, though I didn’t realize why.

He started to make small, subtle advances and I barely noticed. Or maybe I didn’t want to notice. The wet kisses passed unnoticed. He mentioned again that he had been thinking a lot about making love to me lately. Gradually, the advances got more direct and forward.

Somewhere along the line, I started to say no and it came out OK. That’s when I knew it was time. I was surprised, but I knew I was ready, due to his persistence. So I gave in. I was sacred, nervous, uncomfortable, but exhilarated, happy, excited, and curious. I actually found myself looking forward to it. I was overwhelmed by the sheer pleasure and the romantic moment.

I sent him out of the room, then I stripped my way up the stairs, leaving a boot at the foot of the stairs, another boot a couple of steps up, my dress a couple of steps after that, my pantyhose a step up from there, my bra at the top of the stairs, and my panties hanging on the doorknob of the bedroom.

I waited completely naked on the bed, wrapped in a sheet. He quickly stripped down to his undies and climbed on the bed next to me. I was tingling. After a little foreplay, I took his underpants off. Then we curled up and gave each other oral simultaneously. We did that for about half an hour.

Then I rolled over on my back and he went inside. We had intercourse for quite a long time. He was very good, and he told me he enjoyed it too. I climaxed two or three times, and he came too. It was excellent! He was very good! It was passionate and romantic, about as good as a girl’s first time can be.

Afterwards, I felt a mix of emotions: sadness, exhilaration, excitement, disappointment, deep romance, nervousness, peace, a bit of regret, but also happiness, satisfaction, and a myriad of other feelings. It was all something of a jumble.

It was a wonderful first experience, very romantic and tender. He was patient and he was very good. I felt like part of me had just died, but I also felt like I had just started an exciting new adventure, one I would enjoy many times afterwards. What a great birthday present!

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