When to say it?

me it was 4months did not say I love you and we broke up and I asked him out and in one week we said I love you.

don’t say it if you don’t meant it. boys do that though, they think if they tell you they love you you will sleep with them… but it has been a few months, so he seems genuine. for me it was 4 months and we have been seeing each other now for over a year. love does develop a lot over time. I thought I loved my ex, and would never love anyone more, but now I realise that wasnt real love and to me this time it is… its a weird thing, like that warm feeling you get when you think of them or hear their voice.

sorry im going on, lol, it just carries me away!

I did the 3 month thing like you or atleast around that time area..

well my boyfriend and I said it after one month. I thought it was pretty quick but we have been together for 15 months and I realized I really do love him. every relationship is different though and it depends on how your feeling. its hard to say it back if you dont really love the person but its better than fooling yourself. the best bet is just saying it when your truly ready. and yeah its the same feeling for me! the butterflies fill my stomach and a warm feeling fills inside me. thats when you know its love.

yes thats exactly the feeling I get! yea it was funny when he had wanted to first say it I was feeling it too and he just got scared. but I had looked at him while we were cuddling and it just hit me. I was just like “woah I love this guy!” I was like how did that happen! and I didnt say anything, not wanting to be the first to say it but he ended up saying it later that night and I was able to say it back knowing that I meant it… :)

I said it to my girlfriend at a few days after our 1 month