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When to have sex with my boyfriend??

Hi im 13 and im gonna be 14 in july and my boyfriend is 14 and 15 next year and we just talked about sex and he wants to have sex and I do to!! Well I think I do!! Well should I have it when im 13 or 14 or when im older?? And where do we have sex??

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Answer #1

Sex is for those who are mature enough to handle both the act and the aftermath/consequences. In my opinion you are just too young to have sex; there is always room for regret and although you may consider your relationship with your boyfriend to be serious now, you are only 14 years old and have not had that much experience with adult relationships. It may sound ridiculous, but I think one is ready to have sex, when they can seriously handle seeing themselves with a child - I’m not saying to wait until marriage or anything, but you want to be sure you can handle what “could” happen; sex is no laughing matter. With 16 and pregnant and other such shows on TV these days, you should be aware of what feasibly could occur. Just think about what you really want. If you want sex, then have it. Have a serious conversation with your boyfriend and don’t think you have to have sex to please him. If you do decide to have sex please use protection. And I don’t mean to sound redundant, but 13 and 14 are both very young. You are still a baby - you have your whole life to have sex…don’t make a mistake you will regret.

Answer #2

You don’t HAVE to make your mind up and stick to it, maybe get a bit carried away with him one night when he tries it on, but make it clear when you don’t feel comfortable. Just do what you feel is right. Just remember to use protection if you do And just ask yourself from time to time, Do you love him? I mean REALLY love him, not just telling yourself you do… Good Luck Hun.

Answer #3

You said that you ‘think you do’. You’re not ready yet, wait before you give it up to someone in middle school. Make sure it’s someone that you’re in love with.. I highly suggest you take a sex education course.

Answer #4

Lol, im going through the same thing at the moment with my boyfriend, except were the same age and to be honest. Age doesnt matter when you have sex or not, as long as your ready and 100% safe, remeber to ALWAYS use a condom. Where to have sex? hmmm, well if one of you is home alone sometime then do it then at your house but dont do it anywhere else. Just make sure your ready like 100% ready, don’t think your ready, know your ready otherwise your gonna regret it. hopefully I helped :) good luck x

Answer #5

your too young, if you were fully ready to have sex, you wouldn’t be asking yourself and on here if you should

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