When should I start having sex?

DONT have sex because your friends are. only do it when you are ready. otherwise you may be known as “the school slut” -sorry. but that’s just what most people would think of a young teen having sex. plus you don’t wanna risk getting pregnant and catching all these STD”S out there. even if your on birth control,still won’t be 100% effective. and if you think that if you use a condom you won’t catch anything or get pregnant. that’s not always true. trust me I have been pregnant a total of 5 times (2 misscarriages & 3 live births) and had been on just about every birth control out there,plus used condoms. cause condoms do break and birth control don’t always work. & even though all 5 of my pregnancy’s were all by 1 guy which is now my soon to be x husband. I had caught HERPES from him. and I will have it everyday of my life this is one of the std’s that you can not get rid of. even though I take medication for it 3 times a day everyday. the meds will only help too prevent the outbreaks. so PLEASE do not have sex just because. live your life while your still young. and if your friends really cared about you then they would not be putting you down like that. well,good luck and I hope you make the right decision. =]