When should I have sex with her?

look, don’t listen to the ‘all people on the internet are pedo’s’ thing, I am certainlly not a pedo and I am offended by that. I met up with a guy of an internet chat site, I know it was dodgy but I had seen him on cam, sent pictures, called eachother etc… so I had faith and trusted it would work. when we met up we had a lovely day together.. then went back to his house, and I didn’t find it rushed, I just found that I really liked him, and the only thing we had been talking around for like 3-4months, so maybe you should wait a little longer:) so you don’t rush into anything silly or make any mistakes. and just be safe and use protection, but you probably know all of that now:) Good luck! and have fun:D

all people on the internet are paedos, don’t do it!

Don’t ever meet anyone over the internet. Too risky.