When it a gud time to have sex?

ya I toally no what your saying ,,, ya my mam sed it all boys are d same (sorry but it true) so how long till

have a good relationship with a guy first and REALLY know the guy first. because having sex means you trust him well enough to really know the most intimate parts of you right.

I guess you just need to wait a bit first and dont grab the first opportunity to have sex with a guy. you know, young boys will really do anything to get into your pants when they know you’re willing. sad but true. (im sorry boys, but this is true.)

I know you’re really young so I suggest you wait a while. I promise you, it will be really worth it when you do it with someone who loves and respects you :) not just some guy you know you wont remember ever.

ya cause I do lol but all d girls are doing it so am guna to … does it hurt x

yes its ok to be scared a bit.

especially for a girl. but if you know you wont regret it, you know the person you’ll be doing it with is worth it, and you know you have taken all the necessary precautions to not get pregnant (unless you’re planning one), then in the end its gonna be ok.

Whe you can say t yourself that “yes, I know 100%what is sex”. I know its not possible but try for 99.99%. Its call making of love sex is cheap word for it.

• when you’re ready and educated about the repercussions of doing it.
• when that someone you’re doing it with respects you and you know you wont regret doing it with him/her
• when you want to release tension :) haha LOL

thnks xx

ya that a very go reason thnks.. ya am 100% but I just broke up with my fella what will I do just look 4 the guy that rigt 4 me xx

but is it ok to be scared a wee bitxx

I dont think that the reason ‘all the girls are doing it so im going to’ is a good reason. conforming to what people usually do though you really dont believe in it is something I dont encourage. :S but I am kind of traditional so yeah. I still stick to my answer above (get educated about it, do it with a man who you wont regret doing it with).

one piece of advice, do it when YOU know 100% you are ready to. because when you are having doubts on doing it, its your gut instincts that tell you ‘no, dont do this.’ and sometimes, its better to follow this gut instinct. I get to feel you are not 100% ready because if you are, you probably wont be asking this question.

on your question does it hurt, for some it does. for some it doesnt. it really depends. if you’re gonna do it though, make sure you are properly lubricated (with your own discharge or with lube) and make sure the guy stretches you out first (fingers you or what not). this is sort of to prepare you.